‘Love is love’: Cronulla prop Toby Rudolf backs pride round
Cronulla prop Toby Rudolf has backed the introduction of a pride round, which he says would be a special occasion for both rugby league and the LGBTQ community.
Rudolf, a player with big hair and an even bigger personality, is one of very few NRL stars to openly speak about his same-sex experiences, and said while he identified as heterosexual, “love is love, and I love to share it with everyone”.
Rudolf spoke to the
Herald in the week seven Manly players refused to wear a rainbow jersey because it went against their religious beliefs and boycotted Thursday’s game against the Sydney Roosters.
As a result of the outcry, Australian Rugby League Commission chairman Peter V’landys
said the NRL would consider a pride round.
Rudolf said he fully supported such a move and he thought it would be a popular step forward.
“I haven’t got caught up in the Manly situation,” he said. “What I will say is I was raised by quite a few gay and lesbian community members. My uncle is gay and my godmother is gay, and there’s so much love in that community.”
Rudolf is more than comfortable in his own skin, and has never been offended by homophobic comments. The
Herald double-checked he was comfortable with our story before we published.
“Sexuality is very fluid. I’ve been out and kissed many gay men, kissed many straight women and kissed many gay women,” he said.
“I’m not a one-stop shop. Love is love, and I love to share it with everyone. You could say I’m open to both genders but only attracted to one of them.”
Still living in south Sydney, Rudolf said his favourite year in terms of his social life was while he was in the Rabbitohs’ lower grades in 2017.
“One message would go out in the group chat and you’d have all 30 blokes rocking up and all ready to go.
“When you have the likes of Sam Burgess, John Sutton and Greg Inglis leading the charge, you tend to listen to them.”
Rudolf lived with Liam Knight, is good friends with Knight’s new housemate, Rabbitohs and Queensland enforcer Jai Arrow, and still loves to call skipper Cameron Murray, “when he isn’t too busy trying to be famous”.
Rudolf has started up front in all but one game for the Shire club this season, and continues to thrive under coach Craig Fitzgibbon and learn from new recruits Cam McInnes and Dale Finucane.
“I’ve had a few good convos with Fitzy, we have a fruitful relationship, and he’s been happy with where I’m at,” Rudolf said.
“There are still times I’d love to be that Sam Burgess-style player who shoots out of the line and breaks someone in half. But that’s not my role. I try to be that workhorse and help the team wherever I can.
“I definitely feel fitter this year – I’m finding a bit more in the tank that I didn’t have in reserve in recent years.
“Dale and Cam have also been great. Dale is such a leader, he has so much experience he’s accrued over the years – he’s played in about 1000 grand finals – and Cam, who I went to school with, is encroaching on 150 NRL games.”
Seven Manly players pulled out of Thursday night’s match against the Roosters over the club’s decision to wear an “inclusivity jersey” as part of the women in league round.
Josh Aloiai, Jason Saab, Christian Tuipulotu, Josh Schuster, Haumole Olakau’atu, Tolu Koula and Toafofoa Sipley also didn’t attend the game following advice from the club about a possible backlash from the crowd.