How about everyone stand on their own two feet...and start taking responsibility for their own actions? Sitting around on your finger pointing, excuse generating, self victimized arses....screaming "No one treats me right or understands my plight"..........fcuk me. What a sad mob of "feel sorry for me" wankers we'd be if not for people that take the moral high road.
You are responsible for you. You are responsible for setting a high example for your children to follow. Stop blaming others for the way you behave or how it seems your life is turning out. The old "Oh yeah....well what about them?" crap is circular and non beneficial.
Stop trying to fight the world and concentrate on you and yours. Then expand a little further into your community and do the same. It's hard to be labelled a racist if you don't exhibit, or indeed possess any of the signs. It's hard to be charged with domestic violence if you continuously work at contributing to a loving environment and raise your children well. Seek help or professional guidance if need be. It's on your shoulders...deal with it! Work hard at your relationships. Work hard on your empathy for everyone you come across.
Until everyone takes ownership of their lives and the lives of their family, friends and just as equally...the random people you meet day to day....nothing much will change in your life. If you're not willing to put in the hard yards....at the very least stop complaining about the way things are. You're not helping.
Too simplistic?? You're right.....because it bloody well is!! Open your eyes and open your heart.
