There are multiple mod conversations that go on where there typically is a consensus as to how to deal with things. As an example, there was a poster recently who was posting a heap of offensive language posts.So as a percentage how many of my posts are reported from others to be deleted compared to just deleted because a moderator just feels like flexing his or her powers.
These were deleted as soon as they were picked up (thanks to the report function) then there was a discussion about a ban on that post...how long, should it happen etc.
In terms of your posts being deleted? I am not sure I have ever deleted your posts so can not tell you