I haven't heard anyone here say, "What's the big deal?" Everyone here wants Manly to win.
But thank you for telling me I've a loser mindset and I'm guilty of disrespecting the club, simply because I knew that Manly was $2.40 outsiders to make the Top 8 (and yes I put a few bucks on them, proving what a loser I am, no doubt)
I wish I could develop the preferred winners mindset, and pay proper respect to our club by constantly calling our players "pea-hearts' in public, and accusing them of apathy throughout the group.
Out of curiosity, and to possibly help me correct my insulting disrespectful mindset, can you point to any specific evidence supporting this rather damning assertion of 'apathy throughout the group'? If there is such evidence I'd like to know about it, certainly before I waste any more of my hard-earned backing our players and club.
Thanks in advance!
Proof: 4 wins in our last 15 games.
Secondly, for people to say they never expected us to win a game, or never expected us to make the 8, I'm calling BS on that one, because no matter WHAT people say, there is always, and I mean ALWAYS "hope", otherwise what's the point?
Now, I'm pretty sure the majority believed we'd improve this season (new coach, new facilities, new players, new staff). Most had us scraping into the finals.
And I'm not calling anyone a "loser". I'm saying a defeatist attitude is a losing mindset. A losing mindset can be changed. I think it's disappointing people automatically suggest we are going to lose or not make the 8. Maybe it's a coping mechanism?
I on the other hand, while being overtly negative, go into any and every game (including say The Panthers) hoping for, and believing there is a chance to win - and yup, I get bitterly disappointed when we lose. To hear following that, "well, we were never going to succeed" that to me screams of a losing mindset, and an excuse, don't you?
If you were a professional athlete, what type of fans would you want? One's that think you could win any game you apply yourself to, or ones that gave you no hope, so shouldn't be disappointed? For me, that's about respect for the player and club.....don't you ?
And it's that second lot, that are crying foul of the first lot who vent, yell, scream after games because they are so angry, frustrated and disappointed. I mean, how DARE people get affected by the result right? We were never going to make the 8 or win certain games according to some.
I'm also not sure why you took my post personally? Who said it related to you? It could have been about anybody.
But, keep backing the players and team monetarily if you want to. That IS respect for the players and team. Bet against them if you think it's a certain loss. That's your perspective. But jeez, I hope you aren't looking at next season like this one, assuming we won't make the 8, so we shouldn't be disappointed if we don't, because I for one, demand, expect, hope, trust (all the different types of emotions) that we will and do.
Cheers.