47MVEagle
Bencher
Me, personally, I always have high hopes of a win every game, but they are tempered with the reality that we may struggle against teams like Penrith, Brisbane, etc.And I'm not calling anyone a "loser". I'm saying a defeatist attitude is a losing mindset. A losing mindset can be changed. I think it's disappointing people automatically suggest we are going to lose or not make the 8. Maybe it's a coping mechanism?
I on the other hand, while being overtly negative, go into any and every game (including say The Panthers) hoping for, and believing there is a chance to win - and yup, I get bitterly disappointed when we lose. To hear following that, "well, we were never going to succeed" that to me screams of a losing mindset, and an excuse, don't you?
If you were a professional athlete, what type of fans would you want? One's that think you could win any game you apply yourself to, or ones that gave you no hope, so shouldn't be disappointed? For me, that's about respect for the player and club.....don't you ?
And it's that second lot, that are crying foul of the first lot who vent, yell, scream after games because they are so angry, frustrated and disappointed. I mean, how DARE people get affected by the result right? We were never going to make the 8 or win certain games according to some.
That’s why I was pleasantly surprised by & happy with the team’s efforts against Penrith & the Warriors recently.
I don’t agree that being realistic about the team’s chances against heavyweight teams & accepting a loss but still being happy with the effort put in can be deemed a defeatist attitude.
I went into the last game against Cronulla with the same approach & we won, so I was even happier, yet there were people on here grumbling that Cronulla were down in form at the time.
It seems that when we play well & win, it’s because the opposition were either poor or down in form, & when we play well & lose against top opposition, anyone okay with that has a defeatist attitude.
It is only a game of footy, so I’m not going to let it ruin my life if my team isn’t travelling well.
I don’t think that makes me less of a fan, just realistic.