Yeh SER8, perhaps I should follow my own oft used advise...patience.
I guess in a sense I'm relying too much on past experiences and using them as a template. For example yesterday attended a funeral of a long time friend and work colleague. One of the eulogies was from another pal, who was a trainee under that departed soul. He threw her into the fray of the job, sink or swim so to speak. She handled it and said she was grateful because it made her much tougher.
My father, great man, once had a young girl, aged about six and close friend of my sister at Collaroy baths to go swimming with us. She was scared of the water so he pushed her in. Jumped in to ensure she was OK but she learned to swim that day and became a champion synchronized swimmer.
I could name numerous other examples of tough love. For example I felt absolutely no disappointment that Weekes struggled at 5/8 in his initial first full first grade match. He's obviously got the talent, he just needs experience. Important to fall to learn. I recall Peter Sterling's first match at Parra. Played full back and was dreadful. But Parra persisted and history was made.
Young players with talent need the first grade experience. Molly coddling them in kindergarten for too long is not teaching them the next step they have to take in first grade. Throw them in. Doesn't matter if they fail at first because more than likely they will. But experience is the great teacher. I think that's where mistakes are made judging them too early. Schuster perfect example. He might have a bad one this weekend. So what? All part of the development. Long term thinking.