Rex
Bencher
I never indicated they were flaws in her. I like the passion she displays and it is another facet to consider when appreciating an opinion. But even she realises that to get to the core of a matter, you need to first remove the likes of love, empathy, greed, fear, etc. The core is the starting point.
There is no point argueing for/against boat policies if you don't get to the crux of the matter; painting them all as fleeing war or Muslim invaders is wrong. But that is where people plant their beliefs, often because it feels right.
Once you can see the gears, you can then consider outcomes and build an opinion or idea that deals with more than the emotive, and can even go so far as to consider consequences. Too often, emotion will fail to allow you to accept those and it has been unfortunate to see it even in our highest political office over the last decade.
So considering that point of view, perhaps I consider myself a more independent/critical thinker than most. I sense your assertion that I must think of myself as 'better' or 'all-knowing', but I would never consider my opinions to always be the right ones, nor would I suggest ever shutting down opposing views I don't agree with. My opinions change when the facts do, or I learn more.
That is why I like to consider my views as opinions or ideas, as opposed to a belief; the latter is far harder to change than the former.
1. A good example of your use of the "Straw Man Fallacy". i.e. You've misrepresented and exaggerated my argument in order to make it easier to attack. I never claimed you said they were flaws in your Leftie wife. (I don't doubt you enjoy her passion, etc.) I said you claimed they were flaws in your Leftie wife's reasoning. That is exactly what you are arguing. That she has major flaws in her reasoning process - grossly distorted by emotion, easily misled, and not an "independent thinker". And that you save her, and correct her, and set her right, through your superior thinking abilities.
2. You've overtly stated that you lump all emotion together as factors that automatically distort reasoned thinking. You believe that love, empathy and compassion are factors that prevent, and get in the way of, independent thought. So by that measure, you would consider Nelson Mandela, for example, as incapable of independent thought because he was so widely regarded as highly compassionate, empathic and full of love.
Autism is the condition of not having the capability of "theory of mind". i.e. They cannot understand that others can have mental states different from their own - that they can have different thoughts, beliefs, desires, intentions, emotions and perspectives to their own. Because of this they cannot understand others or really relate to them - so they cannot experience empathy, compassion, or love. High functioning people with autism are often labelled as having Aspergers, although there is no differentiation now in the psychological profession. So what you are suggesting is that people with Autism/Aspergers fit your model of what it means to be an independent thinker. That the "Rain Man" is what we should aspire to?
3. You've indicated now that you are fallible in your thinking. I'd suggest that stance makes you more credible, especially if it is backed up in deeds not just presenting words.
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People with Autism aren't able to read others' emotional states. This can be extraordinarily confusing and painful for them to not understand social cues, including non-verbals. As a result people are seen and treated by them purely as objects. This social capability to read emotions - to feel them and to care - is fundamental to our ability to form functional societies. Despite the TV fantasy, Dr Spock would be autistically disabled in his rationality.
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