But for a terrible family tragedy, O’Neill could have been a Manly star. He started out on the Northern Beaches.
From memory - his mother, a nurse, drove home to Warriewood (when Julian was a youngster), before realising she had not returned some keys, before leaving the private hospital where she worked on the North Shore. She was killed in a car accident on that fateful return trip.
His father, a doctor (possibly a surgeon), died within about 6-12 months of his wife’s death of what might be termed a broken heart. Julian was subsequently raised by his grandmother.
Maybe it would be best to drop any further reference to the shoe incident..