Psssht. If only mate 😉 Nah, life is too short to get angry & aggressive about opinions on a footy site. Heated debate (when it's mutually respectful)sure, is actually quite enjoyable, and why I come here. Just the personal stuff...has a lack of interest, but I get some people are just naturally snarky.
If anything, I've learned that over the past 18 months.
Embrace the positive influences, and those that make you feel happy. Those that don't, just don't entertain their rubbish. Just nod, agree, tell them you hope they are doing well, and leave it at that.